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Let's Talk About The Societal Pressure To Get Married

Curating the diaspora conversation

Welcome to this week's Afropolitan! We're excited as we unveil Afropolitan One, dive into the world of Afropolitan Rentals, and shine a spotlight on our community's trailblazers. From candid conversations about the pressure of marriage to empowering conversations about DEI, this edition is packed with insights that celebrate our vibrant, borderless nation. Get ready to explore, connect, and be inspired by the Afropolitan spirit!

Trailblazer Talks

It's that time again, Afropolitans! It's time to dive into our weekly dose of inspiration and real talk. We're all about showcasing Afropolitans pushing boundaries and making their mark. This week's episode? It's a game-changer. Our co-founder Eche sat down with Gossy Ukanwoke, the powerhouse managing director of KingMakers, who is the brains behind BetKing. Trust us, this conversation is packed with insights you won't want to miss.

The Wisdom 🧠

Gossy dropped this truth bomb that's worth its weight in gold:

"Don't enjoy it to the point where you're not doing hard work again, and don't do hard work to the point where you don't take a moment to enjoy it just a little bit."

That is solid advice right there. It's all about finding that sweet spot between grinding and savoring the journey.

From Hustler to Tech Mogul

Gossy's origin story is something else. Picture this: teenage Gossy, already on his hustle, reselling internet services to high-rollers before wireless routers were mainstream. Talk about seeing an opportunity and seizing it!

But here's where it gets interesting. The internet provider caught wind of his operation and shut it down. Gossy said, "You know when they say, cut you at the knees, day by day, my clients were just dropping off one by one." This was a major setback, but for Gossy, it was just fuel for the fire.

BetKing: Redefining the Game

Now, Gossy's taking BetKing to a whole new level. He's not just running a betting company; he's building a tech empire. Check this out:

"It's not just a roadside gambling company; it's a proper technology business. It's a product in gaming. It can easily be a fintech company tomorrow, given the spread across the continent, the number of users, and the number of transactions. It can roll it out and it can be anything."

The man's playing the long game; we're here for it.

Why This Episode is a Must-Listen

If you're all about:

  • Turning obstacles into opportunities

  • Building empires from scratch

  • Mastering the work-life hustle

Then, this episode is tailor-made for you.

Don't sleep on the knowledge Gossy's dropping. Listen to our podcast now and level up your game.

Remember, we serve up these insights every week. Stay tuned, stay hungry, and who knows? You might be our next featured trailblazer.

Afropass: Your Monthly Guide

Afropass is your gateway to unforgettable experiences that celebrate the vibrant culture of Africa. From thrilling music festivals and mouthwatering culinary journeys to immersive art exhibitions and enlightening workshops, our curated selection of events will transport you to the heart of the motherland, no matter where you are.

Afropolitan Spotlight

It's time to shine the spotlight on one of our own! Each week, we're bringing you the stories of Afropolitans making waves and leaving their mark on the world. Trust us, you'll want to know these names.

This Week's Star: Aisha Suleiman 👑

Buckle up, folks, because Aisha Suleiman's resume is a rollercoaster of achievements that'll leave you inspired and maybe a little breathless.

The Accolades

Aisha isn't just making moves; she's shaking up the entire game of diversity and inclusion. Don't just take our word for it:

- Named in the Investing in Ethnicity Top 8 Future Leaders

- Featured in the EMpower 100 Ethnic Minority Future Leaders

When they hand out awards for future leaders, Aisha collects them like they're going out of style.

The Big Leagues

Aisha's been rubbing shoulders with the giants:

- Amazon UK: Not content with working there, Aisha co-founded their Black Employee Network (BEN) and led it as Chair. Talk about leaving your mark!

- IPG Mediabrands: Currently serving as Head of Culture and Inclusion. She's not just talking the talk; she's walking the walk and leading others on the path.

Making History

In 2022, Aisha launched "True White Allies" – a film project that's as groundbreaking as it is eye-opening. It showcases historical White anti-racists from the 1700s onwards. Why? To light a fire under modern-day allies and spur them into action. Now that's how you use history to shape the future.

Changing the Game

Aisha's influence spans beyond the corporate world. As a board member of the Rugby Football League's Inclusion Board, she's been instrumental in shaping their Inclusion, Equality, and Anti-Discrimination plan. Who said you can't tackle social issues and rugby simultaneously?

Why Aisha's Story Matters

Aisha Suleiman isn't just climbing the ladder; she's building new ones and inviting others to join her. Her journey shows us that:

1. You can excel in your career while championing causes you believe in.

2. Diversity and inclusion aren't just buzzwords—they're powerful tools for change when used with expertise and passion.

3. In tech giants like Amazon or sports institutions like Rugby Football League, there's always room to make a difference.

Aisha's story is a masterclass in turning influence into impact. It's not about how high you climb but how many people you bring up.

So, Afropolitan fam, let Aisha's journey fuel your fire. Whether you're just starting or already making waves, remember: your voice matters, your actions count, and your potential to create change is limitless.

Afropolitan Rentals

Get ready to jazz up your travel game because we're announcing some hot news—Afropolitan Rentals is here, and it's about to change how we explore the world!

Picture this: You're jetting off to a new city, but instead of crashing at some generic hotel, you're cozying up in a home that feels just right. Why? Because it belongs to one of our outstanding Afropolitan community members!

That's the magic of Afropolitan Rentals. We connect our globe-trotting tribe with hosts who understand what it means to be an Afropolitan. It's like having a slice of home wherever you roam.

But wait, it gets better! This isn't just about finding a place to crash. It's about diving into rich cultural experiences, making connections that'll last a lifetime, and keeping those coins circulating in our Afropolitan economy. Now, that's what I call a win-win-win situation!

Do you have a spare room collecting dust, a lonely apartment, or maybe a whole house begging for some Afropolitan energy? Well, honey, it's time to turn that space into a home away from home for your fellow community members!

Becoming an Afropolitan Host is where it's at. Here's why you should jump on this bandwagon:

  • Share your space and spread the love to fellow Afropolitans

  • Rake in some extra cash while boosting our community's economy

  • Serve up some unforgettable cultural experiences to travelers

  • Build your network with fantastic folks from our trusted circle

So, are you ready to be part of this game-changing adventure? Of course, you are! Head over to our host application form, and let's get this party started.

Remember, by opening your doors, you're not just sharing a space – you're helping weave a global tapestry of Afropolitan homes and experiences. Now, that's what I call making an impact!

Let's redefine travel, one Afropolitan home at a time. See you on the other side, hosts!

Introducing Afropolitan One: Your Gateway to Our Digital Nation

We're thrilled to unveil Afropolitan One – your all-access pass to our thriving digital ecosystem!

Afropolitan One is the central hub where all our innovative platforms converge, offering a seamless journey through the Afropolitan experience. It's not just an app or a website; it's the beating heart of our digital nation.

What is Afropolitan One?

  • A unified portal to all Afropolitan services and opportunities

  • Your one-stop destination for connecting, investing, and growing within our community

  • The simplest way to engage with every facet of the Afropolitan ecosystem

With Afropolitan One, you can:

To stay updated on the latest Afropolitan news, events, and opportunities, join our WhatsApp channel here.

Whether you're an entrepreneur, investor, traveler, or simply looking to connect with like-minded individuals, Afropolitan One is your key to unlocking a world of possibilities.

Ready to explore? Visit apps.afropolitan.io and step into the future of our borderless, digital nation.

Welcome to Afropolitan One – where our community comes together as one.

Social Media

Time to dive into the hot topics lighting up our timelines! This week, we're unpacking a message that's got everyone talking. Buckle up, because this one's a doozy.

The Spark: Kirk Franklin's Take on Marriage 💍

Kirk Franklin dropped this truth bomb on social media:

"Being married is not a prerequisite for God's hand in life. You can be single and have a purpose."

Franklin goes on to discuss how marriage has been weaponized in Western Christianity. But hold up – this conversation is more significant than just one faith or culture.

Let's Break It Down

1. The Pressure Cooker: Whether you're Christian, Muslim, agnostic, or anything in between, let's be honest – society often treats marriage like it's the ultimate achievement. But is it?

2. Purpose vs. Partnership: Franklin's hitting on something universal here. Your purpose isn't waiting at the altar. It's inside you, ring or no ring.

3. Cultural Expectations: From African traditions to Western ideals, the pressure to marry is real. But are these expectations still serving us in 2024?

4. The Single Life: Being single isn't a waiting room for real life to start. It's a valid life choice and can be as fulfilling as marriage.

5. Redefining Success: Maybe it's time we expand our definition of a successful life beyond the "married with kids" model.

The Bigger Picture 🌍

This isn't just about religion or relationship status. It's about:

- Personal autonomy

- Societal expectations

- The diverse paths to fulfillment

- How cultural norms evolve (or don't)

Your Turn to Speak Up 🗣️

We want to hear from you! Take our poll and let's get this conversation going:

What's your take on societal pressure to get married?

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Drop your thoughts in the comments whether you're happily single, blissfully married, or somewhere in between, your perspective matters.

Remember, Afropolitan fam; there's no one-size-fits-all regarding life paths. Your journey is yours alone – make it count, ring or no ring.

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