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Curating the diaspora conversation
Welcome to this week's Afropolitan newsletter, where we're exploring what meaningful connections genuinely look like in our community.
We begin by spotlighting Kwamina Oblie Botchway, the visionary behind AfroPark. He's revolutionizing how African entrepreneurs connect and collaborate globally. His work reminds us that extraordinary things happen when we build intentional spaces for our community.
Speaking of intentional spaces, our partners at Legacy are elevating the dating experience for high-achieving African singles with their new Weekly Match feature. It's a refreshing departure from the usual dating chaos, offering carefully curated connections that honor our community's standards and value.
Finally, I'm addressing a viral video that's sparked essential conversations about dating standards in our community. As we build platforms for connection, whether professional or personal, we must honestly discuss what we genuinely value beyond surface-level metrics.
This week's newsletter is ultimately about raising the bar. Whether in business, dating, or personal growth, we advocate for deeper connections and standards that reflect our true worth.
Let's dive in.
Event Spotlight: Match Made in Houston: Where Tech Meets Romance
Join us for an exclusive networking mixer during Afrotech Week, where innovative minds and passionate hearts collide. Hosted by Afropolitan's Legacy platform, this event is designed for ambitious African and African diaspora professionals in tech and beyond. Whether you're looking for your next co-founder or life partner, Match Made in Houston offers a unique space to forge meaningful connections. Our event combines the best African culture with cutting-edge technology to create an unforgettable networking experience. In collaboration with Shekpe Knights
Event Details:
• Date: November 14th, 2024
• Time: 06:00PM - 11:00PM
• Location: Lumen Lounge, 5020 Kirby Dr, Houston, TX
Afropolitan Spotlight
I'm thrilled to spotlight an incredible community member this week - Kwamina Oblie Botchway, who embodies the entrepreneurial spirit we cherish at Afropolitan!
As the visionary CEO of AfroPark, Kwamina is creating a vibrant ecosystem where African tech entrepreneurs and creatives can truly shine. AfroPark is special because it focuses on building meaningful connections through dynamic events that showcase the incredible talent across our continent.
But here's what excites me about Kwamina's work: AfroPark isn't just another platform - it's a movement empowering African entrepreneurs to scale globally while staying true to their roots. Through thoughtful collaboration and community-building, they're creating spaces where entrepreneurs can forge partnerships, amplify their brands, and leverage technology to reach new heights.
What I particularly love about their approach is their commitment to equity and mutual growth. Every partnership they forge is carefully chosen to deliver real value to African entrepreneurs. As Kwamina says, "We're building a community where entrepreneurs and businesses help each other and share opportunities."
When he's not transforming the African tech landscape, Kwamina brings his financial expertise to his role as Investment Taxes Manager at Lloyds Banking Group. This blend of corporate experience and entrepreneurial vision makes him a powerful advocate for African innovation.
Kwamina and AfroPark's core values deeply resonate with what we're building at Afropolitan:
Collaboration: Creating meaningful partnerships that last
Empowerment: Helping African talent reach global audiences
Equity: Building a community where success is shared
We're proud to have leaders like Kwamina in our community, working to create opportunities and build bridges for African entrepreneurs worldwide! 🚀
Afropolitan One: Your Gateway to African Empowerment
Are you ready to unlock the full potential of the Afropolitan ecosystem? We're thrilled to introduce Afropolitan One, a comprehensive membership that connects you with African culture, community, and opportunity worldwide.
What is Afropolitan One?
Afropolitan One is your all-access pass to a suite of premium services designed to foster cultural connection, economic opportunity, and a global community. Here's what you can expect:
Afropass: VIP access to premium African cultural events and experiences worldwide
Legacy: A premium dating and networking platform for high-achieving African singles
Afropolitan Rentals: Discover unique stays across the diaspora
Afropolitan Ventures & Founders: Exclusive investment opportunities in African startups
Afropolitan P2P Exchange: A secure platform for trading goods, services, and currencies
Afropolitan Experts Network: Connect with industry leaders and visionaries
Why Choose Afropolitan One?
Circular Economy: Join a self-sustaining community where wealth circulates within the global African diaspora
Cultural Connectivity: Stay connected to your African roots, no matter where you are
Decentralized Governance: Have a voice in shaping the platform's future
Afrotokens: Your Key to the Ecosystem
With Afropolitan One, you'll gain access to Afrotokens, our native digital currency. Use them to unlock premium features, participate in governance, invest in African ventures, and earn rewards.
Ready to Join the Movement?
Choose from two membership tiers:
Pioneer Tier: $500/year
Premium Tier: $1200/year
Don't miss out on this opportunity to join a global network that's redefining what it means to be African in the 21st century. We're building a future where we can collectively thrive and grow.
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Let's talk about this viral video that's been making rounds—you know the one: a 6'4" man making $100k explaining why he's such a rare commodity that women should be grateful for his existence. As a co-founder of Afropolitan and someone deeply invested in our community's growth, I have some thoughts.
First, let's acknowledge what's happening here. This man has reduced his entire value to three metrics: height, income, and being Black. And while there's nothing wrong with these attributes, presenting them as the ultimate measure of worth in dating is problematic at best and harmful.
Here's the thing - when did we start accepting essential stability as exceptional? A six-figure income in 2024 is solid, but it's not the flex some think it is, especially in major cities. Height is a genetic lottery, not an achievement. And is it being Black? That's our identity, not a dating credential. Everything that matters in building lasting relationships is missing from this conversation.
Where's the discussion about emotional intelligence? About being able to communicate effectively during conflicts? What about understanding partnership, showing up consistently, and having the capacity to grow together? These are the really rare commodities in today's dating landscape.
As successful, educated Black women, we must be honest about our standards. It's not about lowering or raising them - it's about redirecting them to what truly matters. A partner's worth isn't measured by their height or paycheck but by their character, emotional availability, and ability to build something meaningful together.
Think about it: Would you rather have a 6'4" partner who can't handle emotional intimacy or someone who actively works on themselves, communicates openly, and shows up as a true partner? Would you prefer someone who makes $100k but is financially irresponsible or who makes less but understands wealth building and shared financial goals?
To my dating sisters, I challenge you to reflect on your non-negotiables. Are they based on societal metrics or what you truly need for a fulfilling partnership? Are you selecting partners based on a checklist of surface-level attributes, or are you looking for someone who aligns with your values and vision for the future?
And to the gentleman in the video and others who share his perspective: Bringing basic qualifications to the table doesn't make you exceptional. What makes someone truly rare and valuable is their capacity for genuine partnership, emotional intelligence, commitment to growth, and ability to build something meaningful with another person.
Let's elevate this conversation. Let's talk about standards that matter - like respect, emotional maturity, shared values, and the ability to grow together. Because at the end of the day, your partner's height won't help you navigate life's challenges, and their income won't guarantee a happy home.
What are your thoughts? What standards do you think we should be focusing on in our community?
Weekly Legacy Match: Redefining Elite Dating
In modern dating, where meaningless swipes and superficial connections have become the norm, Legacy is the premier dating club for high-achieving African diaspora singles. Understanding that exceptional individuals deserve an outstanding approach to finding love, we're thrilled to introduce our latest innovation: Weekly Legacy Match.
This carefully crafted feature embodies everything that makes Legacy the preferred choice for accomplished professionals in our community. Unlike traditional platforms that overwhelm you with endless options, we believe in the power of thoughtful, curated introductions that honor your time and status. Every Thursday morning, selected members receive one meticulously chosen match, representing the finest of our exclusive community.
The process is elegantly simple yet remarkably effective. Each Thursday, you'll receive a private introduction to someone who shares your accomplishments and ambitions. These aren't algorithm-driven connections – they're carefully considered introductions to individuals who have been personally vetted to ensure they meet Legacy's exceptional standards. Your match's profile will showcase their professional achievements, aspirations, and interests, allowing you to evaluate the potential for a genuine connection.
What makes Weekly Legacy Match truly special is its focus on quality over quantity. We understand that our members – founders, executives, and distinguished professionals – value their time and energy. Rather than sorting through countless profiles, you can focus on one quality introduction each week. If there's a mutual interest, you can connect directly through our private messaging system, allowing conversations to develop naturally and meaningfully.
This innovative approach to dating reflects our understanding that exceptional relationships begin with extraordinary connections. Our members appreciate the sophistication of receiving one thoughtfully curated match rather than dealing with the overwhelming nature of traditional dating platforms. It's an approach that respects your time while maximizing the potential for meaningful connection.
For those who understand that true compatibility goes beyond surface-level matching, Legacy offers a refined approach to modern dating. We invite accomplished individuals who share our vision for elevated connections to inquire about membership. Join a community where exceptional singles meet their match and where every introduction could be the beginning of something extraordinary.
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